Wednesday, February 29, 2012

One powerful stretch you can do at your desk


Picture taken from Yoga Journal Sept 2011 Edition


Sitting at your desk for too long causes :
1) Your metabolism rate to slow down
2) Strain on your neck, upper back and shoulder
3) Hunch back and poor body posture
3) Many other health risk and threats




To ensure that you give your body a proper stretching, try the above pose every 1 hour. It truly helps as it opens up your chest after slouching for hours and it gives your neck and upper shoulder muscle a breather.


Try it and hear the tiny little bones clicking away in relief when you stretch upwards and backwards. Do not forget to breathe DEEP and SLOW up to about 10 counts. After two breath, try and push your body a little further back.


The idea is to ensure that you slowly push both your arms backwards, behind your ears.


Here are 29 little exercises tips which you can do at (or near) your desk, that you can incorporate into your daily work habits.




At the end of the day, it would do your body wonders if you could go into a downward dog pose for about 5 minutes. Start with 2 minutes if 5 is too hard.




Picture taken from here


After sitting the whole day and compressing on those muscles, your body would appreciate the reverse effect, where you allow your upper body's muscle (the shoulder, neck and spine) to relax, give your hands and arms some much needed mild workout (it helps to tone it as well), while the pose increases blood flow to the brain and eyes.


The downward dog pose is both a resting pose and a strengthening pose. It helps you to neutralize your back bone as well.


For more variety of poses that are extremely good for neck, upper back and shoulder, click here, and scroll to the middle.


--moon


Blog name - carrot head and applemint

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

Leap Year~~ Once Every 4 Years!^^

Yeah..it's the 29th of February today! Something which happens once every four years. A leap year to be precise. Oh well, n this also marks the last day of the month. What have I done so far? Somehow I can't remember much of what have I really done this semester although we are almost coming the end of the first half.  Life have been quite hectic for the last few weeks. With assignments, folders, church, works and etc. Sports day today and tomorrow. This year I am the treasurer for my house. So, my responsibility shall be different from years before. Oh well, no marching this year around. Sad news. T.T! After the Sports Day, we shall have a visit to KK Wetland Park. Not for fun actually but to help out in cleaning the place. Haha! For BIG(Bina Insan Guru). Anyway, 9 more days to the day I long for since 4 weeks ago. Come on!! I need a time machine.^^

Monday, February 27, 2012

What If?



In the last few years, I have had all these significant moments in my life that have shaped and defined the person I am today. People that have come in my life, even people that have left it.

Grey's Anatomy is a television show, that I have recently fallen in love with and I guess this post is inspired by one of the more recent episodes. The season 8 episode If/Then, was a special What If episode and the shows lead character imagined what her life would be life now, if certain key moments never happened.

It was a couple of weeks ago now but I have been thinking about it a lot. What if?.......

I started with the earliest.


What if my Mom had not gotten sick?


Learning that my Mother was sick, was the key moment that, the moment that I really felt like my childhood was over. I had never had to worry about anything significant before. The thought of losing her was something I fretted about constantly for 2 years. But that wasn't the only effect it had on my life as it is now. My Mother was never the same after the 2 operations she had to remove the tumors that grew on her spinal column and at the base of her brain stem. Her personality had unfortunately changed and it effected out relationship. The years that followed were volatile. We argued constantly and it left me severely depressed. I turned to her medication and she turned to alcohol. Together the mix was toxic and out relationship has never fully recovered.

What if I never got addicted to painkillers?


For almost 5 years, drugs were my main priority. I wasn't focused on school and when I was working, I wasn't doing anything to carve a career for myself. I just was. I never could do much except wait until the next time I was able to get my hands on them. This would depress me further, so I would go out at weekends and get blind drunk or off my face on cocaine and pills and try not think about it. I am smart and even now, I feel like it is going to waste, that I had wasted to0 much time.

What if I had finished school?


To be honest, this question haunts me more than I would like, especially these last few years. When I first moved to Manchester, It was perfectly acceptable to me to be schooled in life rather than academics, I was having the time of my life, living without family for the first. But in the years that have passed, I have begun to wonder more and more, where I would be if I had gone to University. Would I already be a journalist right now? Would I have discovered my passion for debate and gone to Law school?

What If I had never moved to Manchester?


This is one question, that I almost 80% certain I already know the answer too. I genuinely think I would be dead. I have already died from a drug overdose there, I just think it would have happened a lot sooner. It ills me to know that the place has such a negative effect on me when I am exposed to it long term. Some of my best friends and my family are there, but the place is out of bounds for me. Living there cannot be an option for me.

What if I had never met my friend Damon?


You might wonder why he might be so significant. But without Damon, I would not have the amazing group of friends I have now. Sometimes it seems that they who I live for. See, I had started working for a company, just a few short days after I arrived here in Manchester and I quickly befriended Damon, through him I met Paul and Ben. I eventually moved in with Ben. Fell in love with my first boyfriend and really fell in love with this city. Through living here, I have met some of the most amazing people and developed a confidence I never thought possible. This seems overly sentimental, but its all true.

I think of these questions and I try and tell myself, that I can never know if what might have happened. I can just be grateful for what is happening now. But I know I am still not done yet. Things get tough for a while but I always try to remember 'It will always work out in the end'











Day trip to Malacca, yaay...!!!


Picture taken from here


We will definitely be heading for authentic Baba and Nyonya food... :)))






Picture taken from here


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Did I managed to get your appetite going? Well, at least you already know what you're going to have for lunch today, right? He..he..he...


Enjoy your Tuesday!



--moon


Blog name - carrot head and applemint

Some Unanswered Questions~~^^



 Does it means that the more we hear, the more we doubt about the knowledge we all possess? Or is this what we call knowledge is endless? We can say that we are so smart till whatever level we want but still we can't overturn the most high above all of us. So what if you are best in this world? So what if you can be a perfect runner yet you can't understand how others feel. What other people feel in your shoes is totally none of your business. Is this all you search for all this while?


Try to think of how other people feel la. Fit yourself in their shoes before trying to shoot anyone as you like. It's not like the whole world owes you anything or what. Come on, the truth is that everyone care for you. Please try to change and be a whole new person. By the time you realize this, the world shall be a much better place to live in and you may even see a cheerful place around you!


Sometimes it's just so hard to deal with certain people or shall I call them species. I don't know how they actually think and what do they want from me. Why is it so hard to understand them? What a life. It's only Monday and I am having blues once again. Oh well, what to do. Life goes on. 12 days to Sibu! Wait for me patiently ya.^^

Thursday, February 23, 2012

Some Weird People I Discover Lately


It's just so hard to understand how they actually think at times. Why must they make everything look so complicated? Oh my, just make them as simple as possible ba. It's not the end of the world la. Every time repeat the same thing over and over again, even if you don't feel bored, the one beside you will eventually got fed up la. Haiz, this world is really getting weirder day by day. The world is changing to another self which no one know what it is really up to.


People ah people, can't u just sit down and talk face to face like a real man? Must u have cold war over just a small misunderstanding. I dun even know how that thing would actually occur. How can good friends turn to something like tat? Misinterpret this and that would eventually turn the truth to lie and from lie to truth. Well, de ja vu rite? Have this ever happen to you? All I can say is good luck gal! Dun make things too complex and just be yourself. People started it, so what? Must u continue on like them? Dun follow their childish manner ba!


I would rather be the last one to know the truth than be the one who never even realize what had happened for the whole while. Secrets. Yeah, I know that everyone has secrets but must you keep everything in your mind and keep them to yourself? Dun you feel helpless and feel like bursting out all the truth at one go? I am indeed speechless la. Can you please dun be so cruel to me? I wonder why and how all the time. I just hope that I dun collapse in the end. Gosh.

Assignments and Time~~^^

It's Friday once again. Another week which I dun really remember what I did for the whole week. It has passed by like the speed of lightning. You just won't feel it. In a few days time, we shall need to say goodbye to the month of February. Oh well, with the passing of time, the date of submission of assignments are getting nearer as well. How great. I have two tasks in hand and I am really worry about them as I have not finish them just yet.

But then, I guarantee myself that I won't leave them till last minute! Come on la, why must we let ourselves suffer like that? We can finish them earlier and then go to sleep like every other night. So, good luck to all my friends out there. Have a nice day and all the best ya!^^

Monday, February 20, 2012

No Pain No Gain!!^^



Yesterday was a hard choice. I actually had 3 choices for me to choose from. Church potluck dinner, class steamboat dinner and lastly group discussion on Sibu's trip this coming March. In the end, I chose the third one which I thought was the priority. Oh well, choice was choice. What has been done, is done. Some were unhappy but what can I do? Lol, come on! Haha. 


Today was another different whole new experience. Was trying to take a short afternoon nap before my friend phoned me and asked me to go out. So, why not since it's not always that I go out with them. Big Apple first then to Karaoke~~ Wow, nice nice...to sing out loud!! Hahahhaa..then to Philippine Market for fish n chicken hunting~~ Mantapla...la la la... One phrase to summarize all, "No Pain No Gain"^^ Good day people~~

Sunday, February 19, 2012

Sign of the Water Lily

"My roots touch unseen knowledge."


If you were born between February 20 and March 20, you were born under the sign of the Water Lily. Water lily flower signs are perceptive and deeply psychic. Water runs through all the flower signs but especially through yours and this accentuates your intuitive abilities. You are sometimes able to absorb ideas and thoughts of those around you. You can be emotionally swayed by other people's feelings too. Sometimes your emotions can run out of control, but you can turn to your natural creative abilities to help you get grounded. You are a natural artist, dancer, and musician. You are also an excellent communicator, and may be drawn to other languages too.

Source: What's Your Sign

Sun in Pisces


The Sun is in Pisces from February 19 to March 20, depending on the year.

Symbol: The Fish
Ruler: Neptune
Element: Water
Season: Winter
Modality: Mutable
Placement in Zodiac: 12th Sign
Metal: Tin
Stone: Jade. Coral
Color: Sea Green
Flowers: Jonquil; Violet; Poppy
Anatomy: Feet, Veins

Keywords: intuitive, dreamy, artistic, humane, sympathetic, sensitive, compassionate, perceptive, tender, impressionable

As the twelfth and last sign of the zodiac, Pisces contains within itself a little experience of all the signs. This gives Pisces Suns the ability to identify with people from all walks of life—from all backgrounds—in some way. These individuals are not only changeable and adaptable, they have open minds and tremendous understanding. But Pisces itself is often misunderstood. Pisces Suns may spend a good portion of their lives yearning for understanding, and the other part in a state of divine discontent. Suffering is sometimes glamorized in the Piscean world.

Sun in Pisces people are frequently pegged as wishy-washy, but this is all a matter of opinion. What you will find behind a vaguely directionless, spacey manner is a deep person with real dreams. Their dreams are more than getting that picket fence or making it up the corporate ladder. Pisces are tuned in to a higher purpose and their dreams transcend the individual. A deep love for humanity, and compassion that knows no bounds is found with this placement of the Sun.

Pisceans are not known to be cutthroat business types, nor are they given to throwing themselves out into the world in an aggressive manner. But make no mistake about it, Pisces can be extraordinarily successful when given the chance to express themselves. The arts, marketing, music, teaching, drama, healing arts...these are all fields in which Pisces can find expression. Their imagination, attunement to humanity, and remarkable intuition endow them with enviable gifts of insight and creativity.

Pisces is a sensitive sign—both sensitive to criticism and sensitive to others' feelings. Easily touched by human suffering, at least in theory, Pisces wouldn't hurt a fly. They believe in people, are deeply hurt by compassionless human behavior, and have a hard time saying no. Harsh realities are avoided either through escapist behavior or self-delusion; but every now and again reality does raise its ugly head, and hits Pisces over the head. This is a sad time indeed. Pisces retreats into their own world, self-pitying and giving pep talks to themselves ("I will never trust again!"). Rest assured, though, that these periods are rather short-lived and even useful. Pisces seems to derive energy from their (generally short) bouts of self-pity. They come back stronger, with a spring in their step, ready to face the world again, and just as, if not more, compassionate and trusting as they were before. Some might even wonder if Pisces finds pleasure in suffering. Sometimes this is the case, but most of the time, Pisces pulls a lot of creative energy from sadness. Pisces is the poet or artist with angst, although this trait is often more apparent with Moon in Pisces.

Some find Pisces' tendency to be late for appointments, spaced out behavior, and absent-mindedness amount to irresponsibility. Pisces would be shocked to know this, however. Who me? Pisces wonders. Irresponsible? Pisces Suns absolutely care—their love knows no bounds—but their retreats from ordinary life (whether they are as simple as daydreams or actual departures) that they so seem to need every now and again are not always understandable to no-nonsense signs, such as Virgo or Aries.

Many Pisces seem almost allergic to things like shopping lists, maps, directions, and instructions, and for some brave souls, even watches — they prefer to feel their way through life than to follow some plan.

We find plenty of artists, poets, and musicians with Sun (and other personal planets) in Pisces. Piscean themes are woven throughout the songs of Billy Corgan of the Smashing Pumpkins and Kurt Cobain of Nirvana, for example.

Source: Cafe Astrology

Saturday, February 18, 2012

How To Choose?^^

Why do we often hold on such strong grudge on something which is actually so meaningless to us? There must be a reason behind every decision we made. Hmmm, though sometimes we must keep in mind that one can be so helpless at times. He just can't make the right choice when there are 2 nice and sweet paths in front of him. How to choose? Choose one and the other one will be hurt in the end. Haiz..what a life. Just be yourself first and help yourself before you help others ba!^^ Have a nice weekend people~^^

Enjoying a lazy Sunday


Picture taken from here


Aaaaaaaaaaah........ what a lazy Sunday. Bliss.............

Yeah, I was practically lazying on the bed like the fella up there... :)))

Got up at 10.30 am and planning to go for a late lunch followed by coffee. Then probably take a nap in the afternoon, before we head out to Mid Valley this evening.


My breakfast at 11.30 am. 2 slices of whole wheat toast, a plum, half a piece of guava and a glass of milk. Yuummyy....!


Was browsing the net a moment ago and I came across a very interesting blog with spectacular pictures. Would like to share it here with you all - sleepycathollow

Enjoy and have a fab weeekend!


--moon

Ash Tree Lore

Each month of the Celtic Lunar calendar bears the name of a tree, Ash is the 3rd Moon of the Celtic Year - (Feb 18 - March 17).


  • Latin name: White Ash - fraxinus americana; European Ash - fraxinus excelsior; Flowering Ash - fraxinus ornus.
  • Celtic name: Nion (pronounced: knee un)
  • Folk or Common names: Ash, Common Ash, Unicorn Tree, Guardian Tree
  • Parts Used: Leaves, wood, bark, twigs, sap, flowers

Herbal usage:

Ash leaves and the tender tops can be used in the spring to make a fasting tea that is a diuretic and can be used as a help for weight loss. Ash bark is known as a liver and spleen cleanser and can make the immune system stronger. The flowering Ash has sap that contains a sugary exudate called 'manna', which can be used as a laxative.

Magical History andAssociations:

The bird associated with this month is the snipe, the color is half clear and half deep blue, and the gemstone is sea-green beryl. The Ash, a masculine herb, is associated with the element of water, the sun and Jupiter; and is sacred to Thor, Woden, Mars, Uranus and Gwydion. Ash is also sacred to Odin since the Ash is often known as the Yggdrassil (or the 'Ash Yggdrasil') amongst the Scandinavian nations. In Norse mythology, the Yggdrassil supports the Universe, has three main branches and is believed to have sprung from the beginning of time out of primordial slime and ashes.

The Ash is also the tree of the sea God Poseidon, because of its watery power. Frennett (frenetic chaos), a substance used by berserkers, may have been made from Ash bark. The Ash was supposed to be serpent repellent - Pliny held that there is such an antipathy between an adder and an Ash-tree, "that if an adder be encompassed round with Ash-tree leaves, she will sooner run through the fire than through the leaves".

The ceremonial Yule log is often made of Ash - this log is kindled each Yule with a piece from last years fire and allowed to smolder for 12 days before it is ceremonially put out. The Ash tree is famous, although anonymous, since it's the tree from which the Hanged Man is suspended in tarot decks

Magickal usage:

The Ash was one of the sacred Druidic three: 'Oak, Ash and Thorn', and the month of Ash is a good time to do magick designed to learn your inner self. The Ash has applications in magick done for sea power, ocean rituals, karmic laws, magical potency, healing, protection from drowning, love, rain making, women's mysteries, prophetic dreams, general protection, Prosperity, and health.

Ash is often used for making both mundane and magical tools - it's said that tools with handles of Ash are more productive than tools with handles of other wood. Witches brooms often have the staff made from Ash, and Ash wood was used for spears and shields since it was known as a protective wood. Placing Ash berries in a cradle prevents the child from being traded for a changeling by an evil faery - and Ash talismans can be worn as protective amulets. Ash is known to keep away serpents and to protect against their bite. If there are no snakes to be found, Ash can be used instead to keep away nasty people who are bitchy, quick to criticize, impatient, or psychic vampires.

Special guardian spirits reside in the Ash; This makes it excellent for absorbing sickness. The spirally carved Druidic wand was made of Ash for this healing purpose. In years gone by, weak-limbed children were passed through split ash trees which were then bound up. If the tree grew straight, the child would as well.

Ash can be used in medicine pouches or can be used in magick for wart remover: the wart is stuck with a pin that has first been thrust into an Ash, while these words are said:

"Ashen tree, Ashen tree,
pray these warts off of me."

 
The pins are then stuck back in the tree and left.

The druids attributed special powers over water to the ash tree. They used its wood to make it rain or to ward off water's destructive power. The Ash is the tree of sea power, or of the power resident in water. Ash leaves placed under the pillow will induce prophetic dreams, and carrying an Ash leaf will attract the love of the opposite sex.

The Ash is often called The Unicorn Tree, because unicorns are supposed to be fond of the tree. To catch a glimpse of a unicorn, carry Ash wood or leaves. Whenever you need to harvest a piece or part of an Ash tree, remember to ask the tree if it will allow you to take a branch or other part and be sure to leave the tree an offering of thanks when you are done. A nice offering would be a bit of mane from a unicorn.

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Source: dutchie.org

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Half time




Thank God, it's Friday..!!! What a chaotic and hectic week this had been for us!


It was so hectic we didn't even celebrate Valentine's Day! This year, all hell break lose. Suddenly there were tons of urgent stuffs to prepare, several outstation trips to make, assignments deadline looming on the horizon and ST fell sick, on top of that. And before we knew it, Valentine's Day was gone. Of course, we promised ourselves we will make it up this weekend.

Actually, we do not really celebrate (like buying expensive gifts and bouquets of flowers), or maybe we do. We do make it a point to make reservation at a nice quiet restaurant for dinner. And usually those restaurants will ensure the dining experience, the atmosphere and the dinner package comes with tiny little gestures and gifts (a stalk of beautiful rose or two little imported chocolates) that is sufficient to make a lady feel special on Valentine's Day. 


It's the thought of making it a point to have a romantic dinner, while we enjoy the food, the atmosphere and treasure the moment together that counts. And it's something that I miss this year.


Anyway, I'm gonna chill out a bit this weekend, before hitting the accelerator again. It's gonna be another 6 weeks of grinding, followed by 2 weeks of crawling through. Might schedule for a facial massage or a full body massage next week, if I can find the time.


Have a fabulous weekend everyone! Cheerio!



--moon


Blog name - carrot head and applemint

Some Recent News!!^^



This week has been a week of ups and downs for me. Many things came by and most of them has been solved as the week come to the near end. Yeah, I feel so grateful for that. God has been so good to me. 


Sometimes we should just accept the fact that things go as it is. Heard something nice for a while may just sweeten our heart for a long time. And I just got that. Great!



Gonna join some church activities later just like some other typical Thursday! We just need to leave some time out for God. Come on.



I just realized that this half year is gonna be a long half year to go and yet I found myself struggling with the budgeting of my money. So, good luck to me! And not forgetting all of my friends nearby!


Thank you for treating me well and not saying no. It's just feel so good right now. You might just don't realize how much good has that been to me! Anyway, thank you and may all of us have a great weekend ahead of us. Have a nice time people!^^

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Criminal Conviction.



You might remember, last month, I shared the story of my being arrested with you. If not, you can read it here.

You might note that I might have been rather flippant about the whole affair. Laughing it off as just one of those things that sometimes happens to us. Well, I can assure you now, there is nothing laugh worthy happening right now. Last week, I had to answer bail for the incident, I had just started my new job and it was scheduled for the afternoon and I couldn't make it till almost 18.30. I was re-bailed again for today, the day of love.

I wasn't that worried, I was expecting that I would be re-bailed again for a later date and sometime between then, notification that the issue had been dropped. All that came crashing down this evening when I was informed I was being formally charged with Common Assault - Contrary to the Criminal Justice Act 1988, for those who wanted the specifics.

When I was first arrested I didn't take legal counsel, I didn't even feel it was necessary, I didn't want to waste anyone's time. Anyone else's that is. So when I got the charges and the bail conditions, I considered representing myself. I guess, I still wasn't taking it seriously, even then.

I have a keen interest in the law, especially criminal law, I enjoy the philosophy and theology  behind it and I figured, that I probably wouldn't have the chance to represent myself in court again and what a good way to make the best of what seemed a really silly situation. So, I get home, still optimistic that I was doing the right thing, secure in the knowledge that I didn't do anything wrong.

But as I began to research the charge, what it entailed, what it meant, how I would defend myself against it, I started to get upset. I was mad, I am mad! There are so many holes and inconsistencies in the entire process that were not followed, no option to respond to the charges. The Common Assault charge should have applied to all parties involved but only applies to myself and my friend Ali.

My charge had some bail conditions though, I have to attend an Alcohol intervention program at least once before the court date and I am not allowed within a license premises within the City Centre until my court date which take place on March 7th.

Now, and I hate to sound like some kind of soap boxer - but I want justice! I have sent some emails to some solicitors and preparing everything to defend myself in court. Legal aid is not always reliable, so I plan on being as heavily involved in my defense as possible. 

A Love Potion

To excite passion in another, this is one of the best love potions available:

To a gill of red wine in a saucepan, add a teaspoon of rosemary leaves, a teaspoon of aniseseed, a teaspoon of cloves, a teaspoon of clear honey, and a teaspoon of orange rind. Also add a pinch of ground cumin and three green leaves of rose geranium.

Stir the mixture and bring to a boil. Reduce the heat and allow the potion to simmer for two minutes. Then remove it from the heat and allow it to cool until it is not steaming before straining the botanicals out through a fine sieve. Finally return the potion to the heat until vapors begin to arise and it is ready to be served to your intended.

From: SimpleMagic.com

Happy Valentine's Day


Happy Valentine's Day to all of you out there! Well, this year is no different from any other year! Haha, no need to say more. Everyone knows what's tat! Anyway, for those who are already in a relationship, all the best in maintaining ur relationship! I wish you all the very best in it! Wahaha..for those who are still single..dun stay forever alone~~ Come on, show some bravery and courage in pursuing the one you like.. You can do it de la! Just need some more patience~~ Muahahaha..happy happy day~~^^


On receiving a love letter that has any particular declaration in it, lay it wide open; then fold it in nine folds, pin it next to your heart, and thus wear it till bedtime; then place it in your left hand glove, and lay it under your head.

If you dream of gold, diamonds, or any costly gems, your lover is true, and means what he says; if of white linen, you will lose him by death; and if of flowers, he will prove false. If you dream of his saluting you, he is at present false and means not what he professes, but only to draw you into a snare,

Found in:
Encyclopaedia of Superstitions, Folklore, and the Occult Sciences

Romany Valentine's Day Divination

By tradition many species of birds begin pairing off at this time. The Romanies say that if you are unattached, a bay leaf placed under your pillow on St. Valentine's Day will induce you to dream of the person you will marry.

From: The Good Spell Book

Love and Attraction Oil

  • Lemon Juice Extract or Essential Oil
  • Rosewater or Essential Oil
  • Vanilla bean extract or Essential Oil
  • Gold glitter or two gold stars
  • Almond oil
Prepare a perfumed oil using 2 ounces of almond oil as the base. Add 7 drops of rose water or 7 drops Rose Essential Oil, 3 drops of lemon extract, juice or essential Oil, One vanilla bean or 7 drops vanilla extract or essential oil, gold glitter or two gold stars

Anoint the pulse points before going out or add to bathwater for a magickal love attraction bath.

From: Incense Oils and Brews

Monday, February 13, 2012

Happy Valentine's Day, everyone!



Picture taken from here


--moon


Blog name - carrot head and applemint

A Meme for Valentine's Day

1. What is your favorite romantic comedy?

I really had to think about this one, romantic comedies are not one of my all time favourite genres. I thought of the obvious ones, Legally Blond, Miss Congeniality. But those examples are more about the laugh's and the romance angle is not what draws me to them. But, I guess my all time favourite romantic comedy, which leaves me feeling all warm and lovey dubby inside would be The Sweetest Thing. It has the right mix of both - Laugh out loud comedy and a beautiful yet studly love interest. Also, the immortal lines.

HELLO IS JANE THERE?

HAVE A LOVELY DAY!!


2. What are your favorite flowers?

Can you go wrong with roses? I wouldn't want traditional red ones though, not just red anyway, a mixture of Red, White and Yellow and a colour I didn't even know they bloomed in. That would be awesome. But, they would have to be sent anonymously.



3. What is your favorite Valentine's Day treat to eat?

Cadbury's milk tray! It was the best thing about Valentine's Day when I was younger, My Mom got Chocolates!



4. Describe your best Valentine's Day.

It would involve a fun fair, all my best date scenarios are me at a fun fair. There probably wouldn't even have to be a date. Anyway, we would go on all the rides of course. But I prefer to be the one that does the planning and I would arrange that there be an empty compartment on a ferris wheel or something like that. Oh who am I kidding, my ideal Valentines day would be lighting some candles and having sex near them. Then ordering take out and falling asleep, content and full of starch.




5. What has been the most romantic night of your life?

It wasn't long after the Big Gay weekend for Manchester pride and my then boyfriend and I, where out late, just walking around. We both needed to get out of our apartment. We managed to find ourselves on the roof of this really tall building in the city. We lay down looking at the stars, the lights of the city. We probably stayed there for about 2 hours, talking about silly things, kinda just holding each other. Even as I write that I can feel the bile rise - It sounds really cheesy but It really was a special night.


6. What's your go to date night outfit?

Ermmm, I wouldn't plan on wearing much clothing. I would probably put on my best underwear though!



7. Where is your favorite place to go on a date?

Recalling one of my earlier answers, A fun-fair. I really enjoy funfair's and I find the anticipation and exhilaration of a ride, to be kind of exciting and to share that with a date, can be fun. I find myself, attracted to people who are fun, who are funny and know how to laugh and scream. Either that or I have a serious fun fair fetish.



8. Store bought Valentine's or homemade?

It doesn't really matter to me, presents are not that important too me. But I do love surprises.



9. What is your favorite love song?




10. If you had to pick a date for Valentine's who would it be?

There are two people, I have crush's on right now. Neither of them any good for me and I have a strange feeling once Valentines Day passes, they will pass. However, I have been single for 3 years now, I think it's time.